The meeting with this guy was great...he is such a nice person and I think its may be because he is Arminian...he is going to help me find some contact. He told me that his grandparents were the orphans of the Armina and Turkey war:(and that most of Arminian people are scattered around the world. But he was soooooooo nice...What I realized more was that he kinda was saying the same stuff that my parents keep telling me...you know how sometimes you don't want to listen to your parents because you think that they are not in your situation so what the are saying might not be applicable to you..but from the third party point of view I got very good advices..I think the first thing he recognized about me was that I really shy..when it comes to strangers...I am completely shy...when I get to know people I would be very comfotable and as here calls it will come out of my shell;)I hope its going to end up well.